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Busting commonly held masturbation phone sex myths (and nuts)

Sometimes I feel like a myth buster. One of the biggest surprises for me in embarking on this sort of career is that commonly held concepts of men are absolutely not true. So, as opposed to the macho, brawny guy who doesn’t feel and just provides like a robot to his wife and family–really deep down wants to be treated like the desirable passionate creature that he is.

Men are erotic and sensual and have the same needs as a woman in this department.

If married women figured this out it would put me out of business. Unequivocably true story–top request in terms of masturbation phone sex is the seduction call. A guy wants to be flirted with, teased into having a passionate fling with me. I am very happy to oblige.

The mind is such a powerful thing isn’t it? In order for me to seduce you, however, I must be attracted to you. So what makes me attracted to a man on the other end of the phone.

Clearly for me it is not photos. I know this is a hard concept for a man to grasp–because–well most men start their sexual play with photos that turn them on or movies that depict the kind of sex they enjoy. For me, especially, this isn’t the way to the heart of my vagina.

What turns me on? Being real. That means when you call me for masturbation phone sex treat me like a real person–in order for me to want a seduction fantasy with you you must sound real and interested in MORE THAN JUST THE SURFACE TRAITS. Believe me, for some men–especially in the 18-25 range this is hard grasp but for the more seasoned man–he’s going to know that saying the right thing to me will open up the Pandora’s box of sexual pleasure.

And what does the right thing entail–complimenting me on my intellect–my erotic prowess with writing and my voice are good places to start. I also enjoy a good ego stroke so if I make you cum hard I like to know that. I also enjoy knowing that you are following me–almost like a stalker online. And if you see that I have written about our call–well instead of a critique about how short it is or where it falls short a simple thank you (which DOES NOT have to occur over the phone will make me very wistful for YOUR cock.

I’ve been told that I am an atypical masturbation phone sex phone fuck. This is true–so it’s time to break down the myths about this phone sex operator because in my world one size does not fit all.

Three fingers in and how to have a perfect masturbation phone sex relationship

When asked if I enjoy watching guys jerk off on webcam, the answer is a resounding yes. However, I have to admit that it is not your rock hard cock that compels me to watch.

Faces fascinate me. The look in someone’s eyes when they are experiencing sexual pleasure can only be likened to a man seeing his perfect feminine form. Do you know how it makes your body feel when you behold your feminine ideal? For me, the look on your face during your most intimate masturbation phone sex moment holds the same.

Examples of perfect masturbation phone sex partners are the best way to describe this. After years of therapy phone sex and pegging phone sex, J and I decided to take the plunge and turn on his webcam. I’ll admit, after you’ve done masturbation phone sex calls for years with someone, seeing them for the first time creates nerves on two fronts.

The obvious–will I still be attracted to this person? Well, generally for me I am–the look in someone’s eyes when they are fucking themselves for me and especially in J’s that night made me more motivated to want to drain him of all his cum–in the most delicious of ways.

The second front–will HE be too nervous to do it? I could tell he was and since his bloodstream was devoid of alcohol he was a bit shier than I expect. You see, the cam will do that to you…double edged sword.

Good thing he calls me for masturbation phone sex–all those years of comfort I have undoubtedly provided him culiminated in him sitting his sexy (and yes YOU ARE SEXY J) ass on the bed three fingers in and that look on his face…well let’s just say I have masturbated to it for the past several days. It also doesn’t hurt that J is a dead ringer for my favorite of all time TV Bad man. If you know me…you know who that is.